Perhaps the most important day in your life is ahead of you, a day that will mark a new cycle and which is actually the beginning of starting your own family and your own life with the choice of your heart. One big change, an obligation, but also an unforgettable day.
Your wedding day
Generations ago, from the very beginning of marriage, families passed down their experiences from generation to generation to their children, and quite often, you heard about marriage both beautiful and ugly things. Obligations of marriage can certainly be a big burden, but at the same time a sense of security in life, which is easier to walk through with the person you love. The power of pure emotion often overcomes all difficulties and makes you a stronger and more capable person. On the other hand, little by little, marriage pulls you into your own world, often distances you from friends and other family members and becomes a new way of life, filled with great obligations, especially when the family expands with new members.
Knowing all that, knowing how many obligations, responsibilities and uncertainties lie ahead of you, you will want to stay tied to the time before marriage, tied to the way of life until then, tied to your friends from school and student days, and you will want to be with them the day before the big day. decisions, toast to new circumstances. You will want an unforgettable evening that will actually be a prelude to the day of the big celebration.
Girls will once again want to gather their best friends together and have a special party, exchange opinions about the the wedding and remember events from the past, and men to walk in their stories through the years when they enjoyed beer, games and going out as singles. Of course, everything is selective and relative and depends on the individual, but at the same time it does not mean that you will stop with old habits. Bachelorette parties they originate from the Netherlands, sometime in the 16th century at the time of the beginning of the feminist revolution and girls started following the example of, until then only men, to celebrate their Bachelorette party.
Today, bachelor and bachelorette parties are mostly held a week before the wedding. The groom and his closest friends on the one hand, and the bride with her friends on the other hand, usually have a party, when they will symbolically appear for the last time as "single" or "free". Organization of girls and bachelor parties it was first started by the Spartans, back in the 5th century BC. Spartans, who were known as famous soldiers, celebrated the last night as free men before the wedding.
A celebration was filled with a sumptuous feast, dance and music, and the guests toasted the groom, who would vow on that occasion that regardless of getting married, he would remain loyal to his army. Now, when we read the history of these events after such a long time, we realize how essentially the symbolism has not changed much until today.
Unlike the Spartans, you certainly won't have to pledge your allegiance to the army, but you will subordinate your loyalty to your partner. Even today, parties are filled with dance and music, but also with luxury, a feast or a special decoration of the evening, of course everything in accordance with the needs and character of the individual. The essence has remained unchanged, it really is celebration which still symbolizes the days when you last appear as a "free girl", i.e. a "free man". However, celebrations are changing, the space of the organization, decoration, and the music itself, and certainly that the photos, as well as the way of dressing, as well as other elements, are adapted to the time in which we live today. It is certain that in the 5th century, when everything was created, future newlyweds could not use mobile phones to send each other pictures from their individual parties at the same time or to participate in the "live broadcast" of the event. Are they girlish and Bachelor party a symbolic farewell to "freedom" or a joyful entry into the "world of new responsibilities", is certainly a topic that many people think about differently, but it is certainly a joyful event that is often practiced today. Toasting the marriage union is not out of the question and it should certainly be done in a special way, with special decoration, organization and take a photo with happy friends and an event unforgettable!
